Decoding Teen Slang in 2025: A Parent's Guide to Understanding Gen Z Lingo

During the holidays, we had a bunch of kids - 11 to 16 years hanging around us. I was taken by surprise with the language they were using.  More than 50% of the conversation was hard to understand. 

The world of language is constantly evolving, and no group demonstrates this better than teens. For parents, keeping up with the latest teen slang can feel like decoding a secret language. But fear not! I’ll break down the top slang terms I learned from these kids. By the end, you’ll be ready to engage with your teen on their linguistic turf—or at least understand what they’re saying. 😄

1. Rizz  

• Meaning: Short for “charisma,” it refers to someone’s ability to attract or charm others, especially romantically.

• Example: “Did you see Alex at the party? They’ve got so much rizz—everyone was talking to them!”

• Tip for Parents: Think of "rizz" as the modern version of being smooth or charming.

2. Bussin’

• Meaning: Used to describe something that is extremely good or delicious, often food.

• Example: “This pizza is bussin’! I could eat the whole thing.”

• Tip for Parents: If your teen uses “bussin’” at dinner, congratulations on a successful meal!

3. Sigma

• Meaning: Refers to someone who is independent and doesn’t conform to societal expectations; often used for lone wolves.

• Example: “She’s such a sigma—always doing her own thing and crushing it.”

• Tip for Parents: This term often carries positive vibes, celebrating individuality.

4. Slay

• Meaning: To excel or perform exceptionally well at something; also used as a general compliment.

• Example: “You absolutely slayed that presentation!”

• Tip for Parents: This one’s versatile and uplifting—feel free to use it yourself to encourage your teen.

5. Skibidi    

• Meaning: A reference to a viral dance or trend often associated with catchy music and lighthearted fun; can also symbolize something entertaining or goofy.

• Example: “That video was so Skibidi—I couldn’t stop laughing!”

• Tip for Parents: Skibidi often connects to trends on TikTok or other platforms. It’s all about having fun and being playful.

Why Does Teen Slang Change So Quickly?

Teen slang evolves at lightning speed because:

• Social Media Influence: Platforms like TikTok and Instagram popularize new terms overnight.

• Cultural Trends: Music, memes, and viral challenges shape the way teens communicate.

• Group Identity: Slang helps teens create a sense of belonging within their peer groups.

Pro Parent tip

Decoding teen slang might seem daunting, but it’s an opportunity to connect with your teen in a fun and meaningful way. By understanding their language, you can bridge generational gaps and create shared experiences. Plus, using a term like “rizz” or “bussin’” might just earn you cool points—or at least a good laugh 😂🤣

Remember, language is a living, breathing thing. Embrace the changes and enjoy the journey of learning alongside your teen. Slay the parent game, and don’t forget to have fun along the way! ✨